Tuesday, December 06, 2011

One Word That Will Ruin Your Marriage

Justin and Trisha:
There is a litmus test in our marriage that has 100% accurate results. We can tell our marriage is drifting into mediocre when one word is used. As we speak at conferences and spend time coaching couples we hear this same word repeated over and over again. It is a small word, but one that carries the power to keep any marriage mediocre. That word is…… BUT.
  • I know I have an anger problem…BUT
  • I know I haven’t forgiven him…BUT
  • It’s true that I occasionally look at porn…BUT
  • I do use sex to manipulate my husband…BUT
  • I haven’t been completely honest with my wife…BUT
  • I invest more in my job than I do our marriage…BUT
  • I am not where I need to be spiritually as a wife…BUT
  • Yes, I’m chatting with my old boyfriend on Facebook…BUT
  • I am a control freak with our money…BUT
  • I make her feel guilty all the time…BUT
  • I know I don’t stick to our budget…BUT
  • I said I would change…BUT
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