It Keeps Getting Better

Ray Ortlund:

We fell in love during college. Crazy in love. When we married, we were so happy to belong to one another fully. But at first, I (Ray) did not understand how to love Jani sexually to her maximum joy. I really did love her. I just didn’t understand.

After a while, she came to me gently and respectfully and said, “Honey, I think we can do even better. Here’s how I think it might work . . .” So we tried. I learned. And we went to another level. Here we are now, both of us sixty, and it keeps getting better.

Do not think that your sex life as a married couple goes into decline after 30 or 40 or 50.
It can keep getting better. It becomes more tender at heart and more expert in mutually satisfying performance.

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