Showing posts with label orphan care. Show all posts
Showing posts with label orphan care. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Just Tightening Up The Aim On The Kids That Create Problems

The NY Times:
More than 30 years ago, a 37-year-old friend of mine with an unplanned fourth pregnancy was told by her obstetrician that an amniocentesis was “too dangerous” and could cause a miscarriage. She ultimately bore a child severely affected by Down syndrome, which could have been detected with the test. 
Today, my friend’s story would have a different trajectory. She would have a series of screening tests, and if the results suggested a high risk of Down syndrome, then an amniocentesis or chorionic villus sampling (C.V.S.) to make the diagnosis. She’d be given the option to abort the pregnancy. 
In the future, a woman who decides to continue a Down syndrome pregnancy may also be offered prenatal treatment to temper the developmental harm to the fetus. 
Prenatal diagnosis, today a routine part of obstetric care, has made great strides since the mid-1970s and is now on the cusp of further revolutionary developments. 
In the nearly four decades since amniocentesis became widely accepted, new techniques have gradually improved the safety and accuracy of prenatal diagnosis. Prenatal tests for more than 800 genetic disorders have been developed. And the number of women who must undergo amniocentesis or C.V.S. has been greatly reduced. 
The newest screening test, highly accurate and noninvasive, relies on fetal genetic fragments found in the mother’s blood. Available commercially from four companies, this test is so accurate in detecting Down syndrome that few, if any, affected fetuses are missed, and far fewer women need an invasive procedure to confirm or refute the presence of Down, according to studies in several countries. 
The new test, done late in the first trimester of pregnancy, can also detect other genetic diseases, like extra copies of chromosomes 13 and 18, and a missing sex chromosome. It is not yet approved by the Food and Drug Administration, however, and the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology currently recommends it only for women at high risk for having a baby with a chromosomal abnormality. 
But any woman can get the new screening test if her doctor orders it and she is willing to pay for it herself, according to Dr. Diana W. Bianchi, a neonatologist and geneticist at Tufts University School of Medicine. Dr. Bianchi, who serves on the advisory board of a company selling fetal DNA tests, said she expects these tests will soon become routine for all pregnant women because, in addition to their “extraordinary accuracy” in detecting a Down syndrome pregnancy, they can be done earlier than other tests, and reduce costs and the risk of complications. 
Down syndrome, which occurs in about one in every 700 births in the United States, is by far the most common chromosomal abnormality. It causes physical and intellectual disabilities that range from mild to severe.
Translation = We know more about the kid in the womb so if we want to kill it, we can be appropriately informed.  If you are over 35, ever wonder why you see way less people with Down Syndrome walking around today than when you were a kid?  The answer should be chilling.

Wednesday, October 02, 2013

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Pro-Life Pregnancy Centers = Significant Opportunity

I think there might be a hint of false dichotomy here between political action and supporting pregnancy centers (let's do both!) but I think this quote is quite strong.  At The Vine, we are quite involved at our local CareNet facility and have seen some really cool ministry take place.

Dan Darling:
There are millions of women and young girls living in our neighborhoods who are pregnant and alone. Their boyfriends escaped in fear, and their families might have rejected them. They're facing the mountain of motherhood and wondering how or even if they can raise a child on their own.

This is where the church is uniquely positioned to respond with the gospel, lived out with grace and compassion. Imagine if conservative Christians invested less in political-action committees, candidates, and partisan media and instead opened their wallets to support crisis pregnancy centers. What if we doubled and tripled the number of clinics around the country? What if we worked together to build hundreds, if not thousands, of such centers in America's urban centers?

Supporting local crisis pregnancy centers allows us as Christians to live out our pro-life ethic before a watching world. It puts flesh and blood on our beliefs, pouring the gospel into the hearts and lives of those God has called us to love. Being pro-life is so much more than a political slogan. It's a gospel call to be like Jesus, to give our lives on behalf of the most vulnerable.
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Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Romanticizing adoption? Don’t do it!

Dan Cruver: 
Romanticizing adoption is so very easy and tempting to do.

But adoption always involves suffering. Just ask any birthmother or any child who is one of three hundred orphans in a Chinese orphanage or any adoptive couple who has lived with infertility for years or any adoptive couple who is experiencing the high-ups and low-downs of the adoption process. Sometimes the suffering is deeply intense and ongoing—like that of an orphan languishing each day in a nightmarish orphanage—while other times it’s the heavy heart of the couple waiting to bring their child home. There is no such thing as adoption without suffering.

The same thing is true of our Adoption through Jesus Christ. The Adoption to which we were predestined (Eph. 1:5) could not have happened without Jesus redeeming us “through his blood” (Eph. 1:7). There is no such thing as being Adopted into God’s family apart from the suffering of Jesus. Jesus cried “Abba! Father!” in the Garden of Gethsemane (Mark 14:36) so that we could become sons of God who cry “Abba! Father!” by the Spirit (Rom. 8:15). Our Adoption necessarily involved suffering—infinite and glorious suffering.
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Go to the conference!

Monday, August 05, 2013

For Adoption or Against Abortion?


Michael Spielman:
By the latest count, there are 15 infant adoptions in the United States for every 1,000 abortions. That’s 67 abortions for every one adoption. Among women who visit Planned Parenthood, the results are even worse. According to their own numbers, they perform 392 abortions for every adoption. All the while, the National Council for Adoption states that “hundreds of thousands of families are now available to adopt” (Adoption Factbook, 2011, 9).

The problem is not our unwillingness to embrace adoption; it’s our unwillingness to meaningfully oppose abortion. So long as abortion is kept beyond the realm of moral critique, adoption will continue to be an afterthought. It is only when abortion is removed from the realm of moral acceptability that adoption becomes a real and viable solution to unwanted pregnancy.

Jesus once said that whoever is not for him is against him (Matthew 12:30). Along these same lines, I would suggest that whoever is not against abortion is for it. It’s as simple as that. So, if the question is whether we should be for adoption or against abortion, the answer is emphatically, “Yes!”
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Wednesday, July 03, 2013

A Frank Analysis of "The Child Catchers"

The new book The Child Catchers delivers aggressive criticism of the growing Christian orphan care movement. Author Kathryn Joyce provides important warning regarding potential hazards, excesses and blind spots within the movement.  
At the same time, the book’s overarching narrative and many of its claims often distort more than they reveal. Thoughtful orphan advocates would do well to 1) Listen carefully to the book’s criticism; 2) Affirm its condemnations of misguided compassion; and 3) Confront the book’s many caricatures, half-truths and misrepresentations directly and graciously.
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Friday, May 03, 2013

The Good Heart of the Adoption Movement

Megan Hill:
At age 34, I'm trendier than I've ever been. When my husband and I adopted our son in 2008, we didn't know anyone else whose family looked like ours. We were more oddity than poster family. But, by 2011, when we adopted a second son, the evangelical orphan care movement had gained momentum, and, like it or not, we were suddenly cool.

Kathryn Joyce's new book, The Child Catchers: Rescue, Trafficking, and the New Gospel of Adoption, focuses on the negative consequences of this movement, contending that Christian adopters, "wrapped in the enthusiasm of their new calling, didn't recognize the problems."

Through investigative reports on adoption cases worldwide, she seeks to uncover the implications of what she calls, in a related Mother Jones article, "the evangelical movement's adoption obsession." Joyce criticizes the theological motivation for human adoption, accusing evangelical theologians of "crafting an extensive orphan theology to undergird the movement" as if the doctrine of adoption were something new. Adoption language has been a feature of Christianity from its beginning.

Fundamentally, Joyce believes the evangelical adoption movement has created a supply and demand situation, where the number of adoptable children is much smaller than the growing number of evangelical prospective adopters. In foreign countries, Joyce pins blame for relinquished children on lack of social services, misinformation, shame-inducing moral codes, and poverty. In the U.S., she argues that crisis pregnancy centers use dishonest and coercive tactics to pressure women to give their children for adoption.

While much has been written about the mischaracterization and selective anecdotes used in Joyce's book, sadly, there are even deeper issues about her approach to adoption, children, and women in particular.
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Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Evangelicals and Foreign Adoption

Great post here from Maralee Bradley in response to this critique of Evangelical adoption that was recently published by Kathryn Joyce.

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

A Common Fear For Those Resistant to Adoption

Jason Helopoulos:
Though they are Christian, love children, and see the great need for adoption, the nagging hesitation that may hold some couples back is a concern I wrestled with before adopting. It wasn’t so much the money, or the time, or even the emotional ups and downs of the adoption process. It was something much deeper. A question that I often felt guilty for even considering. I asked myself on more than one occasion, “Will I love these children as ‘my own?’" (my emphasis)

Our daughter has been with us for seven years. My son has been part of our family for four years. And I can honestly say, that there has not been a single day that I have thought anything other than, “These are my children.” I almost never think about them being adopted. Someone once asked me if we had told our children that they weren’t our biological children. I chuckled and said, “Of course, but they don’t need to be told. It is pretty evident. They are Chinese and we are Caucasian.” My daughter has the innocent habit of running up to Asian individuals and putting her arm next to theirs and saying, “Look, we have the same skin!” There is no hiding the fact from her!

There are plenty of times in our home life when we talk about them being adopted. They love to hear their adoption stories, we celebrate their adoption days (think of it as another birthday–we always go to a good Chinese restaurant), and we often look through the photo album of our journey to the orphanage, where they spent the early months of their lives. But other than those moments or when a stranger walks up to us at the grocery store to ask where they are adopted from (and yes, this happens often), I never think about them being adopted. I am always caught a little off-guard when someone makes a comment or asks a question about their adoption. I am not offended, just surprised by the question because I seldom think about it.

In no way am I opposed to thinking more about them being adopted. I am happy to think about it and love talking about it with them. The fact is, I don’t think about it much. Because this is just my daughter and this is just my son. The fear that I had before adoption, that a child void of my DNA or blood would somehow not feel like my child, has been so far from realized that it almost seems silly. However, I say almost, because I am sensitive to the fact that this is not true for every single person who has ever adopted. And so the question needs to truly be weighed and prayed through.

If you are thinking of adoption and this thought occupies your minds, it isn’t a wrong question. It isn’t a sinful question. And it is surely not a question that you should feel guilty for asking. But I can say on this side of adoption, if your experience is anything like mine, this question will never pass through your thoughts again.
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Monday, February 18, 2013

The Drop Box

Power orphan care documentary/story. See the trailer here.

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Monday, October 08, 2012

RESTORE - Sometimes Helping Hurts

If you are committed to justice in the world today, take a few minutes and watch these videos. They are very well done and will likely lead to conversations that many church leaders and mission leaders need to have.

 





 Get the book here, When Helping Hurts (paperback for $8 and eBook for $3)

Monday, August 20, 2012

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Friday, April 13, 2012

A Critique of the Theological Foundations of the Orphan Care Movement

Dan Cruver:

David Smolin (a professor of law at the Cumberland Law School at Samford University) recently wrote a critique of the theological foundations of the evangelical adoption/orphan care movement (PDF version of Smolin’s essay). One reason I am grateful for Smolin’s essay is that it provides us with the opportunity to engage in more self-critical reflection. As you know, the evangelical orphan care movement has experienced exponential growth over the past 5-7 years. We should all be very encouraged by the increased number of churches that are committed to serving orphaned and vulnerable children in tangible and best-practice ways. God has been at work to awaken and mobilize Christians to mirror His heart by caring for the fatherless. However, with the rapid growth of a movement comes a certain amount of theological and practical growing pains. As a movement, then, we must continually strive to mature theologically and practically. In God’s kind providence, Smolin’s essay provides us with encouragement to do just that. 
As a way to encourage continued dialogue and discussion, Smolin graciously asked if I would write a response to his essay that would be included in a forthcoming issue of the Journal of Christian Legal Thought, published by the Christian Legal Society and Regent University School of Law. I was glad to accept his invitation. Smolin asked several others to write responses as well (read a PDF copy of my response). Due to space limitations, I chose to respond only to Smolin’s understanding of the Apostle Paul’s use of adoption in Romans, Ephesians, and Galatians. I will address more of his concerns as the dialogue continues. 
Download: David Smolin’s Essay (PDF) | My Response (PDF)

Tuesday, April 03, 2012

Help Build a School in Zambia




LifeSong For Orphans:
As you saw in the video, Bwalya Bwalya became a double orphan because of HIV/Aids when he was only five years and now he, too, is HIV+.  Thankfully, Bwalya Bwalya lives with his grandparents and is able to attend the Lifesong Zambia School. Despite his uncertain past, he has a hopeful future because of the presence of Christ in his life and the opportunity to receive an education.

We have launched an Impact Zambia 100 campaign that will help build a high school for Bwalya Bwayla and other children in similar life situations.  We are nearly 1/3 of the way there and have only 4 days left.  

We are looking for 100 people to make a monthly commitment of $20 for one year to help complete this building project.

MATCHING GIFT OPPORTUNITY! 
(that's right--gifts will be matched dollar-for-dollar thanks to a generous donor!)

Sixty-seven cents a day from 100 people for a year can make this vision a reality for children like Bwalya Bwalya.  

4 days left 70 people to go...Will you join us?


To learn more about Impact Zambia 100, click here.

Monday, March 05, 2012

Friday, February 03, 2012

Tony Dungy, Super Bowl Halftime, and Orphan Care




As Super Bowl Sunday comes this weekend, we are excited to give you a unique opportunity to share adoption with your friends and family. Super Bowl-winning coach Tony Dungy and his wife, Lauren, have adopted several children and would love to see more families consider adoption. 
A Free Half-Time Video Kit featuring Tony and Lauren Dungy is available to Super Bowl party organizers. This 3-minute video message includes a personal appeal to Americans on the subjects of adoption and the orphan crisis. 
The big win on Super Sunday would be to raise awareness about the millions of children who need a family. I would love to see thousands of local community groups and circles of friends gathering together to stop and consider how they can help.  
-Tony Dungy, the winning head coach of the 2007 Super Bowl Champion Indianapolis Colts. 

With the Super Bowl airing on NBC and taking place in Indianapolis, Tony will be prominently featured on TV in front of hundreds of millions of viewers, making it an easy transition to play his video message at any Super Bowl party. 

We are asking you as a pastor or host of a Super Bowl party to consider spending half-time watching this video and going through this Conversation Guide with your church, small group, family or friends.

Lifesong's complimentary Video Halftime Kit, available on www.adoptionjourney.org/dungyhalftime, includes:
  • 3-minute video featuring Tony and Lauren Dungy
  • Printable guide for event organizers for introducing the video and starting conversations about the Dungy's message
  • Instructions for downloading the video with multiple ways to play it on your TV
AdoptionJourney.org offers additional adoption resources, such Church Adoption Funds, FAQ's answered by couples who've already adopted, webcasts, child sponsorship, and features about families and leaders involved with adoption initiatives.