Wednesday, October 27, 2010

On The Role of the Local Church in Helping Those Battling Porn

Brian Croft:
We must also be wholly committed to the local church if we are to find lasting victory over this struggle. A common flaw in trying to break the cycles of pornography is thinking your one or two random accountability partners are enough. Daily walking in victory over this struggle requires a community effort and an accountability that stretches far beyond your Christian co-worker asking you questions once a week regarding which internet sites you visited. The victory comes as spiritual guidance, care, rebuke, and marriage counseling are given by your leaders. The victory comes when those most committed to your spiritual maturity (other church members) pray for you and your struggle. The victory comes when your accountability partner reports to your pastors and spouse (if married) on your progress in this battle, and you feel the looming presence of church discipline in response to the seriousness of your sin. The victory comes when more is at stake than disappointing your accountability partner whom you have chosen likely because of his/her sympathy to your struggle. Apart from the close involvement of the local church, few find lasting victory from any sin and live the victorious life Christ purchased for us with his own life.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I get weary when I see so much talk about accountability without much mention of satisfaction in Christ. If the battleground lies with just accountability from the community, then the battle is lost even if it is "won" by breaking free from pornography because of religious pressures.

I didn't read the article quoted, but this snippet, at the very least, seems very dangerous to me. While it tries to break the mold of typical men's accountability by pioneering into "community accountability", it ultimately fails in the same way many accountability groups fail, by getting wrapped up in accountability and not Christ.

When men's accountability veers away from being about satisfaction in Christ, it fails.

He's beautiful. He's satisfying. He's life-giving. That's why we don't click on bad websites.