Thursday, September 08, 2011

So You Think You Married The Wrong Person?

Stephen Altrogge:
From time to time I hear a husband or wife wonder if perhaps they made a mistake in marrying the person that they did.

Things have usually gotten pretty bad by the time this question arises. Maybe the differences between the husband and wife are much greater than either one anticipated. The husband is neat, the wife is messy. The wife is talkative, the husband is quiet. The husband is always on time, the wife lives more in the moment. The wife is social, the husband is a homebody. These differences, which were initially just an irritant, have grown into something massive. What was once a tiny gap has become a great divide.

A marriage that once seemed so promising now seems to have little hope. That’s when the “did I marry the wrong person?” question usually arises.
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Marriage books I recommend:
What Did You Expect?
When Sinners Say "I Do": Discovering the Power of the Gospel for Marriage
Love That Lasts: When Marriage Meets Grace
The Mystery of Marriage 20th Anniversary Edition: Meditations on the Miracle
Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy
This Momentary Marriage: A Parable of Permanence

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