Tuesday, July 01, 2008

5 Things Never to Say to Your Spouse

I found some wisdom in this article. Here are the five things:

What you say: "We can't afford it"
What your spouse hears: I don't care about the things that are important to you


What you say: "You think your day was bad …"
What your spouse hears: Enough about you, let's talk about me


What you say: "You're overreacting"
What your spouse hears: Your feelings aren't important to me


What you say: "Why can't you be more like so-and-so's spouse?"
What your spouse hears: My friend's spouse is better than you


What you say: "I'm sorry, but …"
What your spouse hears: I'm not really sorry

Click here to read the full article.

2 comments:

Thall said...

You should never say 'I'm sorry but' to anyone. I don't even let people finish those types of sentences.

I do have to disagree with #1 though. Especially since it is based upon the premise: "Let's face it. Aside from a house in Barbados or our own Lear Jet, mostly we afford what we want to afford." While that may be true for some people, the phrase 'We can't afford it' in our household literally means 'We can't afford it'.

Shadley said...

You should also never say, "So and So makes the best [enter some type of food that your own wife makes and you don't eat here]." Ask Dan.